I communicate only from my own experience in the hope that it will assist others.

For a long time (decades), I closely held the limiting belief that my experience and hard-won expertise was not valid, or not enough, to be received or rewarded by others.

This solid belief caused me to procrastinate, self-sabotage, resist change, and kept me rigid in my stance, stagnated in my mindset.

This consistent habituation ultimately limited the results I would see in my life, even when they were miraculous and worthy of gratitude.

I firmly believed where I was standing was not ‘yet’ enough, so I didn’t feel ‘enough’ was ever there to propel my growth to the next level of success.

Clarity evaded my every effort, distraction and addiction to escaping this feeling became a way of life, and the cycles perpetuated the greatest dis-service a person can do to themselves.

Fear of success became a daily driver, using the motivation of aversion rather than attraction.

Attraction is the cohesive force between the heart and the mind, the individual and society, the past and the future, and it is unstoppable despite the efforts we may make to prevent it.

Primal and survival instincts dictated a daily regimen of stresses and thinking about dis-ease, instead of using positive experience to move me forward through life.

I consistently turned myself away from saying ‘yes’ to opportunities in any mannerism that defaulted to saying ‘no’.

Some of these ways I limited my results flew in the face of all the assistance sent my way by a blessed life and abundant circumstances:

• the multitude of wisdom I discovered in the world (where I could see and recognize, but did not capitalize),

• the people sent by the universe to aid in making me a better person (but I did not make the effort with whom to truly connect),

• the professional opportunities which were open doors for my potential energy to absorb (but I made excuses why they did not ‘fit’ my needs or abilities),

• the intelligence and global opportunity for learning and with which the Internet allows me to collaborate (but I told myself I needed to Do It Myself).

As a practitioner of my unique experience in various domains, I tied my hands behind my own back.

Technology became a way for me to hide behind a keyboard and a screen, isolating me from the world as I attempted to engage in solving the world’s digital communication ‘problems’.

But the problem was me, and ‘wherever I went, there I was’, as the saying goes.

My search for inner meaning is now founded upon integrating with others and their stories, connecting truly to emotions, clearly effecting my decisions to change, that it will benefit my journey too.

To consult and engage with a new communication methodology now, is to remove the resistance hindering a life-giving transforming process, which is innate in each one of us.

Through this process we all learn to navigate through the dream journey of personal, inter-relational, and professional success.

We collectively experience the reality of shaping better a more fulfilling and abundant experience of our lives as they truly are, rather than the limited narrative we chose to believe in the past, or which we concerned ourselves would always persist in our future.

Discover yourself to be one that solutions can apply, by integrating the tried and tested knowledge that has worked for countless others all throughout history.

I now believe that I am not a product of the victimhood of everything that ‘happened to me’, but rather, I am the potential of only everything I choose to change about my story today.

The breadth, depth, and indeed pain and suffering of what I endured can literally be changed (only by a changed mind) into cannon fodder to wage a new life of positivity toward myself and the whole world around me.

No matter how large or how small ‘the world’ may seem, either in isolation or overwhelming scale, the definition of my happiness needs to be the reliance on no external thing from which to derive my own happiness.

The definition and embodiment of this is what I choose to cultivate and share today, with the vast help of others, and in the committed service of love for others who may have struggled in a similar manner.

The results are temporary, as is the struggle, as is everything.

However, I believe the solution is permanent and highly objective, but from a higher frame of reasoning.

That is the challenging set of lessons I must aim to convey and teach in practical terms within my work.